Contacts a month, my girlfriend asked me how much money in hand, I
vaguely that 5,6 million (in fact, not so much). A few months later, his
girlfriend offered to buy a house in her home, knowing that not enough
money, so let the family through a period of time of preparation,
through to 8 million. They discuss the use of 15 million down payment,
the remaining bank loans, monthly payments. Fancy a flat end 90, the
total price of 27 million or so.
There are some discordant voices at home, could have been my sister by 2
million to the beginning, my sister who also promised the husband's
family, get money, her family changed his mind. Sister bent on raising
money to help me, then, and her in-laws were angry. I do not want to
upset due to this trouble, plus enough money available down payment,
there is no borrow more money to the family.
Ready to pay to do a house clearance, the developer asked me to provide
proof of account and unmarried, because when I go to school in another
city account, not to move back after graduation, his girlfriend proposed
to do with her name on the grounds that round-trip fare is too
expensive. I did not agree. The next day I'll get my account of this,
and opened the show did not expect in the process of banking procedures,
credit and my problems, because of school, have had the student loans
after graduation, never returned, the loan can not be approved.
Just cousins work in a bank, I let him help me? To other options. When
you call, girlfriend fire, and were I called too long, failing to always
rely on others, and stormed away.
Night back to her home, her mother something to our understanding of the
whole process. Later, asked about the 8 million to us after the
repayment of money or not? I replied: We let parents said, but I think
we should also. (My home in rural, poor and afraid of life, my brother,
my sister is still reading.) Girlfriend broke up with me. Said that I
lied to her. My dad called to say we do not have the money. This us just
went to the sales offices, pay, the sales lady to count by 30.7%, 8000
yuan more than before, and I hand the cash is not enough to brush his
credit card.
The next day, I went back to the work of the city at night she took away
my bank card and said to audit, and after all my expenses had been her
hand. In fact, when I was money on the card, but when she asked me how
much money the card, I told her that more than 50,000. She asked me to
bank card password, I did not tell her, and said something: enough is
enough, too far. She was angry. That evening I confess everything to her
and apologize.
Now she broke up with me on the grounds: First, I had lied to her that I
have with 5,6 million, the actual No (I am now so much a year salary);
Second, the parents said to pay back the money, and I said not yet;
three, my family was too complex, fear can not stand her. Fourth, Hom
her heart could not forgive me.